How To Get Pregnant With IVF When Nothing Else Has Worked For You

If you feel like you’ve tried everything to make IVF work but it’s just not happening…

Then let me share something that your doctors won't have told you.

It’s not your fault that IVF hasn’t worked for you yet, because you’re having to walk this path alone, when historically, pregnancy, birth and motherhood have always been communal.

In ancient times, women gathered together in red tents throughout the conception process, but now that you’re having to do it in isolation, your body doesn’t feel safe enough for you to conceive…

This isn’t just theory, it’s science. A study from the American society for reproductive medicine showed that:

“Women who participate in a support group intervention will experience significantly more viable pregnancies than women who receive no psychological intervention”

In fact, the study showed that pregnancy rates leapt from 20% to an incredible 54% for women who belonged to a support group.

And that’s why Brave Through IVF is so powerful: it’s your supportive red tent for a modern era of isolation and fear.

It’s an environment where you can feel heard, understood and vulnerable without pressure or judgement.

It's not your fault that you haven't been able to get pregnant, because like most women, you've been taught to focus on your physical health, while giving minimal attention or focus to their mental, emotional or spiritual health throughout the IVF process.

This is why it feels like the world is working against you, because the system doesn't help you with inner issues that deeply impact your chances of pregnancy.

Most women try to solve fertility issues using solutions that only work on their physical body, like acupuncture, naturopathy or diet...

 and it's the reason that most women who embark on their IVF journey don't succeed, and end up wasting years and tens of thousands of dollars.

But I’d like to give you a chance to take a different route.

If you want to be one of the women who is able to become a mother through IVF…

then you need to do something different than most who end up giving up before they can fall pregnant...

...and this is where Brave Through IVF starts to work for you.

Being in the presence of other trusted women reduces stress hormones and turns on your relaxed state, allowing for the biological conditions necessary for conception.

Just like we enter into coherence with our periods, we also enter into emotional coherence when we create a safe space together.

On top of that, being in a supportive environment destroys the fear which contracts your internal pregnancy possibilities…

The brain contains “mirror neurons” which learn from those around us, which means that just by being in this group, your brain will rewire itself around possibility instead of contracting around fear. 

Holding onto past traumas, guilt, shame and fear is having more of an impact on your fertility than you might realise, and that's the power of cultivating Inner Fertility through an environment like Brave Through IVF. 

It creates a crack in the tough concrete of fear, doubt, shame and past traumas, opening just enough space to allow the embryo the internal safety it needs to take hold.

You might have been told that you're "too old" or feel like you're running out of time, but you're exactly where you need to be.

Brave Through IVF is a a space to feel held, seen, and emotionally supported while navigating one of the hardest journeys a woman can face. This program blends powerful lessons from my own experience with practical tools, deep compassion, and weekly support.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

Module 1… How to let go of feelings of shame guilt and self doubt using the Brave Method, which shows you the impact that emotions have on your wellbeing, and allows you to transform criticism with self-compassion….

Module 2… How to survive “the dark night of IVF”, so you can overcome fear, grief and uncertainty with ease and grace. Learn how to manage the lowest points on your IVF journey, and use them as fuel for your transformation.

Module 3… Learn how unresolved emotional trauma passed down from your mother has created “the mother wound” which could be limiting your ability to fall pregnant. Discover tools and techniques to heal this wound in yourself.

Module 4… How to protect and nurture your bond with your partner throughout the IVF process. Practical tools to improve communication, ensuring that you can foster intimacy and connection, even in the most demanding moments.

Module 5… How to become resilient and adaptable so you can successfully navigate the most challenging IVF moments. Learn how to move from a demanding inner narrative of “I have to”, and welcome a new, freeing story of “I get to”…

Module 6… How to connect with your higher self and spirit guides, so you can receive daily guidance to navigate your journey with clarity and strength.

Module 7… A guide to the Donor egg process so you can follow a proven path. Develop the mindset you need and overcome common fears and insecurities...

Module 8… How to release your ex and forgive others so you can let go of negative rumination and open up space for new insights and breakthrough revelations.

Each module increases your ability to create a space of “Inner Fertility”, that allows you to enter into coherence with your future child, creating the space, safety and readiness that it needs to choose to enter the world.

But that's not all. You'll also get access to a library of guided meditations designed to connect you with your future child, and cultivate the inner safety necessary to welcome them in.

Weekly support calls with myself, fertility experts and other women in the group provide the supportive, nurturing environment where you can share without feeling judged.

The lessons are available to you for the entirety of the container, so you can access them when you want and go through them at your own pace. You can always ask questions and gain feedback in the weekly support calls also.

I can’t wait to share this and more with you...

At this point you might be wondering… “What’s in it for me”?

Great question…

While there are many benefits, three stand head and shoulders over others.

The first is the very real possibility of finally escaping cycles of IVF and falling pregnant. 

The second is the savings you’ll make on ineffective treatments, and even future IVF rounds.

The third and most perhaps most important benefit is that you’ll finally be able to let go of all the fear, doubt, uncertainty and other difficult emotions that are ruining your quality of life.

You won’t have to go on this journey alone anymore. You won’t have to feel like you’re lost with only the same old ineffective treatments for years to come.

You'll have so much more certainty that if a cycle doesn't work, it just means that "It wasn't the right time".

You'll be able to let go of the stabbing jealously around seeing friends and family fall pregnant, knowing that "it'll be me someday". 

On top of all that, you'll be able to let go of the feelings of shame, guilt and regret - stepping into the role of the mother who's ready to welcome a child into the world.

You can expect to feel a shift after just the first call…

Even after the first call & meditation you’ll immediately start to feel the relief of being held, supported and loved by other women on the same journey.

You’ll experience the deep satisfaction of that primal need for connection that is so lost in the modern world.

You’ll experience that shift towards the embodied, conscious woman who is capable of creating the necessary space for IVF success…

You’ll experience a sense of knowingness that “it’s just not the right time yet”, when you realise that you’re not pregnant because you’re not actually ready to fall pregnant.

It’s amazing to feel confident that you’re on a new path, but even more amazing is to actually experience the real success of that new path…

And you could experience that within a matter of weeks…

That’s exactly what happened to x…

The value you'll receive from Brave Through IVF is peerless….

Imagine finally being able to hear the words “you’re pregnant”, and realise that it’s finally over, and you’ll be able to hold your future child in your arms.

Brave Through IVF gives you the tools and environment necessary to let go of the past traumas, limiting beliefs and inner wounds that are stopping you from creating the “inner fertility” necessary to finally fall pregnant.

Knowing that we believe in you, even when your hope feels fragile is something that cannot be replicated…

Your belief in yourself raises to the level of the group and you can join the collective consciousness of women who “just get it”.

We believe in your ability to succeed more than you might even be able to.

But that’s not all - the benefits are huge, even on the way towards becoming pregnant. Your new journey can be one of joy, play and fun.

You’ll be able to take on a brand new approach to your IVF journey… one of knowingness, wisdom, power and strength.

Imagine walking into your IVF meeting feeling confident and grounded.

Imagine feeling that if the baby isn’t coming then it’s because it’s not the right time… not because you’re broken

Imagine knowing at your core that you’re not “too old” to get pregnant

These are some of the spiritual shifts that you can expect to experience as a part of Brave Through IVF...

If you want to massively increase your chances of making IVF work for you… here’s my best 100% money back guarantee

While I can't guarantee that you will get pregnant of course, I can guarantee the level of support that I'll be bringing you, the quality of the content in the course, and the transformative efficacy of the meditations in the program.

But that's not all, I'm also going to give you 4 exclusive bonus video interviews with world-renowned IVF and fertility experts...

1. Behind the Scenes with My IVF Doctor, Dr. Raewyn

In this exclusive interview, I sit down with my personal IVF specialist, Dr. Raewyn, for a real, honest, and practical conversation about what it actually takes to navigate the IVF journey—emotionally, mentally, and medically.

2. Understanding Donor Egg Options with Sam Everingham, Founder of Growing Families

In this exclusive interview, I sit down with Sam Everingham—founder of Growing Families and a global leader in donor IVF and surrogacy—for an insightful conversation on navigating donor egg options with confidence and clarity.

3. Navigating the Donor Egg Journey with Denye, Founder of Donor Eggs Australia

In this heartfelt and practical interview, I sit down with Denye, founder of Donor Eggs Australia, to explore how to approach the donor egg path with clarity, confidence, and emotional resilience.

4. Womb Connection & Emotional Healing with Denis, Founder of Womb Devotion

In this transformative conversation, I sit down with Denis, founder of Womb Devotion, to explore the profound connection between your womb space and emotional healing—especially during the IVF journey.

Join our community and begin your journey of transformation and self-love today!

Here's what you'll get:

18 Transformational Video Lessons

Expert-designed content guiding you through emotional, mental, and spiritual healing during IVF
Value: $2,000

Weekly Group Coaching Calls for 3 Months

Live weekly coaching sessions with Sheila, llina and Liz offering expert support, accountability, and real-time answers
Value: $3,000

Ebooks, Meditations, and Journal Workbooks

Tools to help you process grief, find emotional stability, and reconnect with your inner strength
Value: $1,500 

Private Facebook Group Community

A safe, private space to connect with other women walking the same path—ask questions, share wins, and feel less alone
Value: $750

Bonus Expert Interview Series

Exclusive insights from leading fertility practitioners, mind-body healers, and emotional wellbeing specialists
Value: $500 

Your future family is important… Brave Through IVF gives you more certainty, control and support over your chances of pregnancy!

You’ll be able to… build a stronger relationship with yourself and your partner.

You’ll be able to…move through IVF with courage, adaptability, and hope.

You’ll be able to… walk into your IVF appointments feeling confident and grounded.

You’ll be able to… stop feeling ashamed for struggling, and start feeling proud of your strength.

You’ll be able to… transform perfectionism and comparison into self-acceptance.

Imagine… being surrounded by a sisterhood who lifted you up when you were feeling fragile.

Here’s something I understand because I’ve been there many times before. I understand what it feels like to be standing at a crossroads in terms of decision making.

One pathway feels safer because it’s the path you’ve always been on. I don’t blame you for wanting to stay on this pathway. It’s familiar, it’s known, and it’s secure because you already know what the results are.

The other pathway is unfamiliar, it can be scary because the results are unknown and self-doubt can play on your mind.

At the crossroads, each pathway gives you a choice…

The pathway of sameness means you continue as you are and nothing changes. If that’s your preference, you needn’t do anything further.

The pathway of promise is full of possibility and new results, and if you’re successful, it results in you finally becoming the mother you’ve always wanted to be.

If you choose this pathway, I’ll be there to support you. As will my facilitators, Ilena & Liz & the community we’ve built up around this.

My results always came from choosing the pathway that offered the most promise.

I encourage you to choose the same.

However, if the path of sameness has too strong a pull over you… I completely understand and maybe it’s not your time yet. At some time in the future, getting pregnant might become your high priority.

And when it does… I hope this opportunity will still be around to serve you.

Sheila Vijeyarasa